Written by: Brad Pedersen

Last year, my wife and I took a trip to Saint Lucia; an island so vibrant and beautiful it felt like we had stepped into the garden of Eden. For a week, we lived outdoors, surrounded by nature, and immersed ourselves in the simple joy of being present in the world around us. 

Yet, beyond the stunning landscapes and peaceful beaches, we uncovered a deeper, more sobering layer of its story; one that revealed repeating patterns of human nature that has echoed throughout the ages.

As we explored, I became fascinated by Saint Lucia’s complex history. Like many places in the world, its story carries the scars of power struggles and human suffering. I learned about the ‘war-like Caribs’ who reportedly conquered and enslaved the peaceful Arawaks, a tragic pattern that would later be propagated and amplified during European colonization. 

The small port town of Soufrière, once the capital, exchanged hands 14 times between the French and the English, often marked by violence so intense that the harbor was said to run red with blood. These sobering moments serve as a reminder that history is filled with cycles of conquest and conflict, not simply shaped by one group or race.  It reflects a deeper, recurring pattern of human behavior: the pursuit of power at the expense of others which isn’t just a racial problem; rather a human one.

A Universal Pattern of Human Struggle

Oppression is not the creation of any one race or civilization; it is woven into the broader fabric of human history. While recent narratives often highlight Caucasians as primary oppressors, that framing alone misses the deeper, more complex truth. Within Europe itself, the Scots, Irish, and Welsh endured centuries of subjugation under Saxon rule. The Norse raided, pillaged, and terrorized neighboring lands for generations. 

Around the globe, similar stories unfold; ethnic divisions, territorial conquest, and systemic discrimination have played out across every continent. This includes Indigenous cultures, as I learned first hand about the Carib and Arawak in the Caribbean where patterns of domination existed long before European contact. It extends across the Americas, where First Nations tribes engaged in conflict, land disputes, and at times, enslavement.  

The uncomfortable but necessary truth is this: every culture has chapters where the hunger for power and the pull of pride overshadowed compassion and generosity. 

The Hidden Struggle Within

This isn’t a history lesson meant to cast blame; it’s an invitation to examine a timeless truth about human nature. History doesn’t perpetuate the patterns….it reveals them. It simply magnifies what already lives within us all: the pull toward self-preservation over shared responsibility, pride over peace, and control over compassion. At its core, this reflects a scarcity mindset; the fear that there isn’t enough to go around, which often drives us to protect, possess, and dominate rather than connect, collaborate and care.

It’s not a flaw limited to a select group; it is a trait that lives quietly within each of us. Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn once wrote, “The line dividing good and evil cuts through the heart of every human being.” Similarly, the ancient prophet Jeremiah observed, “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked.”  

You don’t have to look far to see this tendency in action. If you have visited a play ground with children, you will witness firsthand the impulse to take rather than give. We are born with self focus and self interest; it was our parents, who had to teach us to share and be considerate of others. By recognizing it, we gain the power to rise above it, to respond with intention, rather than be ruled by instinct.

Comfort, Accountability, and the Modern Dilemma

So then why are so many people playing victims in our modern world? As I reflect on this, I’ve noticed a pattern, when life becomes easier, our sense of personal responsibility often diminishes. 

An old adage puts it this way:  “Hard times create strong people, strong people create good times, good times create soft people, and soft people create hard times.”

We live at the greatest time in history with more comfort than any other generation has known. Comfort is not the enemy, but it can make us complacent. It can make it easier to point fingers outward rather than look inward. I have observed that societies with abundance breed narratives of blame, grievance, and entitlement. This diminishes our sense of personal agency and accountability, leading us to forget the simple but powerful truth: we are responsible for our choices, regardless of circumstance.

This is not to dismiss genuine injustice or the importance of safety nets. There are real wounds in the world that deserve healing and real imbalances that require compassion. But there is a delicate balance: when victimhood becomes a core identity, it diminishes our own agency. When blame replaces responsibility, we surrender the very power we need to change our circumstances.

Reclaiming Our Agency

Reflecting on Saint Lucia’s complex history and the broader patterns of human behavior, I’m reminded of how essential it is to take ownership of our own lives. We may not control the circumstances we inherit, but we always have the power to choose how we respond. 

Life, by its very nature, will bring pain, setbacks, and injustice. But we are not meant to stay trapped in those moments. What happens to us is real; but what we choose to make of it is what defines our story. We can’t always choose our circumstances, but we can choose what meaning we assign to them, and what action we take next.

Few modern figures embody this more powerfully than Oprah Winfrey. By all accounts, she’s one of the most influential people of our time. But her beginnings tell a different story; one marked by poverty, abuse, and rejection. She could have stayed rooted in resentment, letting hardship define her. Instead, she chose a different path. She refused to let pain be her prison. Rather than grow bitter, she chose to grow better. 

When we stop waiting for others to fix the world and begin cultivating integrity in our own homes, businesses, and communities, that’s when real change begins. Healing will never happen in the history books; unless we write a new chapter. We cannot roll back time, but we can wind up the clocks to choose the future we want to create.  

A Gentle Invitation to Reflect

History reminds us that our default nature is often self-serving, driven by pride and ego. However it also shows us our capacity for innovation, growth, compassion, and care. There will always be imbalances, injustices, and hardships. The question for each of us is: what will we choose to focus on? Will we use history to either justify our grievances or to inspire greater personal responsibility?

This week I invite you to reflect on the following:

• Where am I subtly blaming others when I could take more ownership in my life?
   
• Am I using past struggles to justify limitation, or to inspire responsibility and growth?
   
• How can I embrace personal accountability in a way that strengthens my relationships, and leadership?

Final Thoughts

We live in a world filled with both incredible opportunities and undeniable challenges. While we cannot alter the past, we can choose how we engage with it. We can honor the weight of the hardships without surrendering our agency in how we respond. As Viktor Frankl, who endured some of history’s darkest hours, wisely wrote:

“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”

His statement should be a call for all of us to be the kind of person who embraces personal agency, because the future isn’t something we wait for….it’s something we create; starting from within.

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